Could you describe your first or best anal experience?
It was actually a few weeks ago. Normally it isn’t something I like, but I’m wondering if its just an issue of time, comfort and most importantly, trust.
I’ve spent over a year with my partner so I’ve become really comfortable. I know that he knows how anal feels too as we like pegging, so he wasn’t too pushy and knew the right speed and to take it slow, and the right way it felt from his experiences. That to me is also very important. I don’t do things unless they are returned, or at least the other person understands what they are asking for! 🙂
I was actually the one to bring it up. I was feeling a bit toey, so I mentioned awkwardly (I’m so not sexy at starting sex :p) that I was interested, and hinted a bit. We went into the shower and snuggled and washed each other. It was lovely as it was so cold that night, and the combination of warm, wet skin, hot water and steam was amazing. Afterwards we dried each other off and went downstairs to the bedroom.
We started off just kissing, hugging and touching until I was really warmed up and then I found a comfy position for me (on my tummy, its my fav) where I could just lay down and relax, and have my hitachi going. We started out with fingers and kisses, moving onto my favorite toy that isn’t my hitachi- the pure wand, which I very highly recommend. The small ball is easiest to start off with, and the slight curve of the bar is surprisingly really, really comfortable. Much more so than straight toys, buttplugs or beads for me. I’d been laying on it so it was body temperature which was nice. After I got used to the sensation with the hitachi it started to feel really nice, so I did most of the moving and rocking, so it was on the angle that was best for me. Soon after that we moved onto the larger ball, which is actually larger and wider than the head of his penis, so when we started it was an easy swap :p
It was lovely, when we started. It couldn’t go all the way in without being uncomfortable, so we just took our time. Me on my tummy, him on my back kissing me, hugging me. The skin pressed up against me was so lovely. Little by little I rocked back to push it in. It was effortless, and the slower we took it the more I wanted it in- which actually really surprised me. I actually didn’t know when it was all the way in. I was busy just bobbing along and thrusting at my hitachi.
Normally, it’s a bit of a struggle for me. I can’t relax at the best of times, esp. with guys when totally alone but he just made me feel so wonderful. The position was just perfect. It’s how I am when I’m flying solo so it added another level of comfort. There wasn’t once when I felt like stopping, or when it was uncomfortable. I did turn the hitachi up a few times though, because I wanted the stimulation of the front and back to be on par.
After about 20 minutes it was game over for me. It felt weird, when my muscles tensed up with something in there. But it was a good weird. I suppose I’m just not used to it! I think we both slept really well that night :p